>>158 (OP)
It looks alright to me. I'm not a NAS expert but if you just want to host music then it should be fine. As for the GPU, you should look into a beefier card. It'd be able to stream 1080p fine, probably. What matters more is the file format (mkv, mp4, etc) and the size of the file in my experience. If your device can't play MKV, the GPU/CPU has to transcode MKV to a compatible format and thus puts more strain on the server. Music, however, should be fine no matter what, even if your wife wants to play flac files.
You can also check out the current /hsg/ thread on 4trans, which might give you helpful info https://boards.4chan.org/g/thread/104025835